Dear Jen, I NEED advice!!! I’m a bit stressed here and I don’t exactly know what is wrong with me. Let me explain my life a bit right now; I moved into the city recently & from the “burbs”. I love it of course but it is a different way of life. I joined tinder and there is a setting on it to change the age of the person you want. I of course have been experimenting with guys in the early 20’s. I think they are so sexy and scrumptious! I look young for my age as I am 46 but I swear I look 29. Younger guys just love me too! Can’t wait to hear your advice! Lauren
Hi Lauren! Thanks for writing in! First, I want to celebrate you looking younger than you are! Studying skincare in the past- I do know that you can prevent aging BUT I also know that usually the eye area or neck area tells our age. It is usually the eye area— just a tip but make sure you focus on that area.
Anyways– girl why are you dating guys that young?!?! I mean you are 46 and you could have a son that is 21… yah know??? This might be a self-esteem issue. Do you believe that you deserve a guy that is mature enough and can give you the life you deserve? I’m #almost30forever and I can’t imagine dating a 21-year-old. Mentally, physically and emotionally I can’t even fathom wanting to date someone of that age. I find it a little disturbing that you would say they are scrumptious and sexy. Just know that YOU deserve the best and this situation doesn’t seem the healthiest! Even if you are experimenting and in the middle of a life change–you deserve a mature- successful — experienced in life man!! I swipe “nope” on the younger guys and start swiping right for Mr.Right… ages 35-55 for YOU!!!